August 19, 2019

You can start to be a nudist today

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Matthew McDermott
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Becoming a nudist is easy. If you take your clothes off until you’re nude, and like it, and do that somewhere others often don’t, you’re probably a nudist.

That doesn’t mean taking your clothes off around those who don’t take theirs off, and don’t want to see you nude — that’s being an exhibitionist. It doesn’t mean being nude every day, all day — that’s just impractical.

Nudism is a simple preference for one’s own nudity — no more and no less. There is no qualifying amount you must be nude, no particular community you need to be a part of. Nudism isn’t a club. It’s a way of being.

Many people who are new to nudism say things like “I want to be a nudist but I don’t know where to start.” For these people, there seems to be some bar in front of them, some hurdle they need to clear, before they can call themselves nudists.

But the bar is much lower than they think. Want to be a nudist? Take your clothes off. Do you like it? Congratulations! You’re a nudist now.
Part of the problem is when other nudists try to act as gatekeepers. Some seasoned nudists—not all of them, but some of them (and any is too many)— seem to think that if you haven’t been nude in some particular context, like in a public clothing-optional place, or at a nudist venue or organized activity, you’re not a “real” nudist.

While many nudists find social nudism enjoyable, there is no bar you have to get over, no qualification you need to achieve, to identify as a nudist. And gatekeeping about what makes someone a “real” nudist is exclusionary and unnecessary.

So don’t worry about whether you’re a “real” nudist or not. Be nude your own way.

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What kind of nudist are you? Or do you consider yourself any “kind” of nudist? Tell me in the comments!

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I like the feeling of being nude. I don't put on clothes at home when its just my wife and I alone. I stay nude when some friends come by. I put on shorts when others come over or someone delvers a package, etc. but mostly I am nude. I have been following some of the groups who want to make public nudity legal where it is appropriate. The idea is not to segregate nudists giving them space to be nude in out of the way hard to get to places on public lands, but to allow bare skin to… Read more »

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